Positive People Solutions Ken Warren
 

Anger management quiz

Please answer Yes or No to each of these questions.

 Question Yes No
1. I often don't think before I react
2. I regularly lose my temper, often over small issues
3. I am more aware of what others do that is frustrating rather than focusing on my own behaviour
4. My close relationships are often tense or in conflict
5. I often think my way is the only way to see a situation
6. I find it hard to compromise
7. My family or partner thinks I have a problem with anger
8. I have had legal action taken against me due to my behaviour towards others
9. I frequently blame, complain, criticise, explode or withdraw
10. I have physically hurt myself or others when upset
11. I have damaged property when angry
12. I fluctuate between withdrawing from people and exploding
13. I have been called "controlling" by others
14. I am reluctant to discuss difficult issues
15. Sometimes it feels like I have no control over my own behaviour
16. I try to ease my tension through alcohol or drug use
17. In the past, my anger has contributed to separation or relationship breakdown
18. I am not satisfied with my own behaviour
19. I find it hard to apologise for my behaviour
20. I am very remorseful for my behaviour, but find it hard to change