How good is your relationship? Please answer Yes or No to each of these questions. Question Yes No 1. Most of the time, we find time to talk 2. We generally feel heard and understood by each other 3. We give each other support when needed 4. We are both happy with the levels of affection and intimacy in our relationship 5. We get on well with each other's friends and family 6. We can accept it is OK to have different views 7. We come up with compromises for the future when needed 8. We have similar goals and values 9. We cut each other slack when we need to 10. We make up quickly after an upset 11. We are good at forgiving each other 12. We both feel trusted and secure in the relationship 13. Most of the time we feel our needs are considered 14. We both feel appreciated, valued and respected 15. We have fun together, as well as apart 16. We give each other space when needed 17. We have a good balance with household/family responsibilities 18. We both give a high priority to taking care of our relationship 19. We each acknowledge and take responsibility for addressing our personal flaws 20. The positives in our relationship outweigh the negatives by at least five to one
